A big shoutout to everyone not to keep complaining and on the other hand to be grateful for everything that they have. What does the term ‘everything you have’ mean?
It means all the material things you have in your life- your house, money, clothes , your precious body , your health and each and everything. Not only this the most important thing is being grateful for all your relationships.
Friends let me give you my story. Long back when I was in school I was ragged by all the girls and boys for 2 years continuously because of jealousy. By the time I went to final year of college I had an emotional breakdown. I wanted to commit suicide so did not apply for jobs. Something stopped me from committing suicide and I went ahead and applied for jobs and got a good job in a bank. I got married and it was very traumatic and when there was physical abuse I walked out of my marriage and got a divorce.
I couldn’t forgive anyone and had lots of complaints about everyone.
But anger and resentments only create health issues for you. Because of anger you get acidity, ulcers, stomach issues and rheumatoid arthritis. In extreme cases anger even causes cancer.
It’s best to forgive all and forget the whole thing. You cannot erase the past but you can write and create your future. Complaining is like making a hole in your own plate. The more you complain your good fortune keeps on getting eradicated.
To continue my story much later in life I realised that what a toll complaining is causing me and I must remove them from my life. I then started praying for each person’s happiness and victory. That way I got completely healed and became happy.
All people make mistakes. Sometimes they may be rude or arrogant. But revengefulness will not serve the purpose. By being revengeful you’re creating karma for yourself. Instead if
you are hurt it’s better to cry it out and shed tears so that the resentments are washed off. Pray sincerely for the good health and happiness of that person and you’ll feel much better. Forgiveness heals you completely. It’s a divine attribute to have. Jesus Christ when he was crucified said that forgive these people for they do not know what they are doing.
When you compare with others and complain that you’re not having this or not having that — then you’re becoming more and more miserable. Never compare with others. You must be thankful to the Almighty for whatever He has given you including the smallest of things. So many people don’t have even what you have. You must thank God profusely for giving you 2 meals a day. You must say thanks to the air that you breathe, water you drink and so on. In India in many villages people don’t get water and they have to walk miles for getting a pot of water. The more grateful you’re the more the Universe will give you.
Let’s remove complaints from our lives completely and let’s lead a life full of gratitude.
Thank you